Friday, December 31, 2010

you..

this post is too a late one.  buy still enjoy! :)

Time may pass, places change but memories...They are forever.. .. .


as i expected... few hours ago .. .. i was attending a wedding dinner.... she saw me...so.. . she text me .. . . i reply her..... 


dear father....... if she is the one for me why am i still need to walk alone in my relationship..? if she is not belongs to me why am her keep walking in and out into my life? please show me the path........ i was trying to let it go and things happen like giving me a chance to hold it on and later on is still remain the same and keep repeating the same old shit!!?!? wtf... i hate this kind of life! fuck this life. 


gym will be reopen on 3th january and the sad things is i am going back subang on january 2.................. (high percentage!) my muscle seem not growing well in fact shrink because my dumbbell was left in my cousin car, they stay at kl so..... i need to go back to subang to get it back D: i miss my dumbbell. i miss the gym equipment... D;


later night my ns friend will be coming to my hometown and i am going to be the tourist guide for the 1st time. lol, hope all the things will go well.. 


i am trying to hide myself from being to get in touch with her so that i wouldn't remember the past.... i am clear that i couldn't cant the pass but the future and i am clear that she won't be the one for me. brayn can you stop dreaming?! fuck, you always be the one who consult your friends when they are killing by the love sick and now you become one of them. clear your mind! wash your face! slap yourself and stop thinking about all this nonsense! you should be working hard to achieve your dream not the dream that are not realistic! *not about your love story*


i have to admit that i start to drink nowadays.............. i hope smoking will not be the next. time will not wait for me.... the earth will be spinning still. day by day....... 


tomorrow i have another date with my tudi zai. have to introduce her a book a real nice one.! name of the book is 说话之道 by 蔡康永. he share many useful information that i should learn. the way we talk.... what we should say and what we shouldn't. what topic can we use to build a conversation.... is all about "way to tal" if you are interested you should go to book store and feed yourself.. i highly recommend this one! :)


is near 3am now. i have to go to bed................... i will sleep well tonight...... my heart told me that. her text safe me...... i know that this is not good but.... . . .........      maybe just for today.. .           .


night nation! enjoy the last day before 2011 :) and 2012 will not be the judgement day because i still have my stuff with the label expired date on 2012. ha! :D

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this was a yesterday post.. something happen to my internet connection so i couldn't upload it. :)

i realized that no matter how strong your love is & no matter how you truly love a person,if your heart gets tired,everything changes,even if you don't want to.


yesterday midnight about 2am i am still awake on my bed... i keep hearing sounds around my ears.......  those sounds is came from incests.. i dunno why those sound seem so loud and i couldn't get myself into sleep at all... i am having insomnia this few days.................... i need some time to get myself back to the person that i use to..


watching movie, dota, creating new magic, playing with my magic and gym is the only way that i could do to stop thinking about her............. i didn't realize that her.. .. had been mixing in a part of my daily routine.. i will stalk on her fb to check whether she is okay ...... i will have the impulse to text or sending a simply sentences to her... (how are you, are you fine, where are you right now....) i am trying so hard to block myself from stepping into her life again only if i could letting her go with a smile on my face that truly blessing her to find her own happiness...... 


is 2.04am right now................ same as yesterday........ those sound is getting louder and louder... in my mind i know it clear that is just a part of illusion...... 


how good was it if i could use magic to clean of the part of the memory that i don't wish to keep in my mind then i would not be facing such many problem. problem is a part of my life "homework" i know that. those homework is to make me grow stronger! become more mature. but why me........................... i felt tired too. D;


this is the time that i wish to rest.. no problems ..... where is all my laugher been? from the korean kjy to lyn to h...... 


if you could not be happy with your own you will  not be happy with others.. i am trying to make myself stronger...........


LOA where had you been. i have lost contact with you for few weeks and now my life is like a living hell. i need you! god can you please help me.... can you see i am here waiting for your help........... 


i need a new plan! 


nation................... i will be back and that time i will be stronger than ever! Is now 2,14am…………

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

A very weird one D; going to ipoh to chill myself up!


Had a real weird dream last night… just the night after I am trying to let ya go.!


You came into my dream like you know I will be helping you again……….. and I fail to keep my words.. I step into your life and help you once again! Wtf is going on.?! I cant even defect you even in my dream.?!!

I have miss so many precious chance to start a really good relationship.. I have hurt so many girls…. I feel myself is such a cold blood person in a relationship………. Sorry for hurting you girls in such a coward way.

Everyone deserve second chance can I get one? I have to admit that I had let a girl down few months ago just because of I still deeply in love with the pass that the old one have given me. You touch my heart and making me believe in miracle in millions way and all you get is nothing from me. .. ……

Now that I am regret and I want you back………. Can i? just few days ago.. Christmas day somehow we met… I am very happy to see you in that moment, in the same time I don’t want to express the happiness that I had in the public. We use to talk and joke all the time and now we are more like strangers…. We don’t talk much like we use to. We don’t share joke anymore… all that is left is just a BLANK PAGE….


Probably you would ask and curious about why am I turning my head back to you….. I know you care about me…  I lie about my real feeling about you…. I had no idea how to face you in that kind of situation … all that I can do that moment is getting myself out off the awkward feeling. If I am too late then......... i will move on (: i will make you the final decision maker..



I've learned the best way to prevent your heart from getting broken, is to act like you don't have one.

single life (let it go and let it be)

single but never alone :)


enjoy his single life a lot.


doing things that he want. 


acting like an idiot without finding himself any shame.


flirt with any girl that he want.


perform magic anywhere to who that he is interested with.


thinking and solving a magic inside his room for few hours like nobody business.



date with any girls that he knows without worrying those gossips that use to turn up.

Speeding on the road …… I .. I cant explain……

A new quote from me… don’t “chase” a girl.. a relationship is a relation that comes naturally… no matter how much effort that you trying to put in a relationship… if one of them don’t want to move but then just enjoy the service that the another one provide, at the end it will just come to an ending…..

I don’t want to wait anyone. Is time for me to let it go… I know that.!

Every time I heard from my friend who and who is having a love sick… I was thinking is that a joke? Is that love that complicated.? Anyway now I know it myself. Is true… is complicated  if you pick a wrong one. The wrong path will just bring you to another wrong turn and if you keep walking in that line, you will be living in a WRONG life.. I like to make myself clear before I make a move. Maybe this is why….

Every time I want to find myself a way to let you go… you turn up……….. I don’t know how the hell you know I am in a very Xxxxxx condition but.. you just cure away all my pain you seem to me my medicine. This will be the pass. I will never want this kind of life.

1 of my friend is too having a X relationship…. And he is suffering right now until putting himself into suicide position… smoking taking drugs………  he told me to never start a wrong relationship…. He told me how he felt after all this years……

3years half have pass away…….. I had make my worst decision ever to wait for you for such a long time… I always be the one to share your pain and helping you to solve the problem and you………. enjoying…. Enjoying the service that I provide for ya………. How many time had I told ya I love you seriousl;y?!

You just ignore like nothing happen…… even worst sometimes you just drop a very short and clear one for me “I know you are joking… this is not funny.” Do you think I will be joking with you…. with my sincerity in my voice….. I will not blame ya. I know is hard too for ya.. because of your parents……. Family comes first and we both know…….. sorry to say this…… I don’t love you like I did yesterday. Hope you can find your own happiness that you wish for… i have make my choice to move on……….. I will move on!!



'L i f e' Is not an 'i - P o d' To listen your Favorite Songs .It's a 'R a d i o' you must 'A d j u s t' Yourself to enjoy, Whatever comes in it...

Saturday, December 25, 2010

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

merry christmas to nation! how your guys doing? dont forget to eat healthy and continue moving your muscle! :) will be update my blog next week i guess, have a lots of outing and events this few weeks :)

Dear Girls, If a guy pauses a video game just to text u back....marry him

Friday, December 17, 2010

Top 5 Ab-Training Mistakes & How To Correct Them

In the ’80s, when they started appearing on everyone from Tom cruise to Madonna, muscular middles went mainstream. Hard cores were no longer hardcore. In Arnold Schwarzenegger’s era, some champs worked their abdominals for 30 minutes daily. For some of today’s pros, crunch time only comes precontest. This article is for nearly every bodybuilder, from gym novices to Mr. O competitors, because most of us are letting our abs off easy. In this article, we’ll examine the most frequent midsection mistakes and lay out ab solutions for making your center the center of attention.

#1 Ab neglect

Bodybuilders might neglect abs because they assume they can chisel them in the next time they diet down. For them, the three Cs–carb restriction, cardio and crunches–go together like bacon, lettuce and tomato, and when their middles are not being defined, they figure, why bother? Another reason for neglect: even when bodybuilders do train abs, they tend to tack low-intensity sessions onto random workouts, and because those workouts accomplish little, they can be skipped with little guilt.
Just as there are two main reasons many bodybuilders neglect abs, there are two main reasons not to. First, core strength is necessary for key mass makers, such as deadlifts and squats. Second, you cannot maximize ab muscularity with a crash course. Instead, you need to grow–or at least maintain–these muscles year-round.

Solutions

  • As with other muscles, set goals–from how you want your middle to look to specific rep and resistance targets.
  • Twice per week, give your abs the same focus as other bodyparts. If you do cardio separately from your weight workouts, an excellent time to hit abs is before cardio, or you may want to ab up in a separate workout at home.
  • Do eight to 12 sets for your rectus abdominis and three to five sets for your obliques.
  • If you’re in a rush, superset abs with other bodyparts or do all your ab exercises as a giant set with no rest between exercises.
  • To avoid the “Why bother?” blahs of endless crunches, infuse your ab workouts with intensity which brings us to our next mistake.

#2 Insufficient intensity

Pop quiz: What were your best sets last time you trained chest?
Now, answer the same question for abs. If you have a ready response about bench presses and inclines, but none for crunches and leg raises, give yourself an ab F. Rest assured, most bodybuilders fail this quiz. Not only do most of us train abs with insufficient intensity, but it seldom even occurs to us that we’re shortchanging our midsection workouts. Instead, we plod through sets of high reps, the sort we would never do for chest or any other bodypart.

Solutions

  • Train to grow your abs, not tone them. The risk of overgrowing your rectus abdominis is akin to the risk of growing too rich–you should be so lucky. As with the woman who fears free weights will make her “look like a man,” alas, it’s never easy to alter ourselves. Train for growth. Toning will follow.
  • Typically, do sets of 10-15 reps. When you can do more than 15, increase the resistance.
  • Ab machines are often the most efficient way to add resistance.
  • As opposed to increasing reps or the weight, you can boost intensity via techniques such as supersets and giant sets.

#3 Missing the target

Owing to their school-gym-period days of crunches and other calisthenics, many bodybuilders still spend more ab time working their hip flexors, straining their spinal erectors and rapidly flopping about than actually contracting their abs.

Solutions

  • Do primarily crunching movements for the rectus abdominis, either free form or with a machine.
  • Train at a slow, steady pace, focusing only on your abs.
  • All ab exercises have short ranges of motion, and thus, contractions are paramount. Hold each contraction for one or two seconds and flex.

#4 Upper ab exclusivity

Most bodybuilders focus primarily, if not exclusively, on the upper rectus abdominis–the six-pack. In fact, that is only one of four ab areas to train. The other three are the lower rectus abdominis (from below your six-pack to your groin), the external obliques (on either side of your midsection) and the transverse abdominis (located underneath your rectus abdominis and obliques). The lower abs are often neglected, because–when you have at least some clothes on–they’re less visible than the upper abs. Obliques are typically skipped, because bodybuilders are afraid of widening their waists. Transverse abs are out of sight and, therefore, usually out of mind.

Solutions

  • Lower abs are important for core strength and a powerful look that ties your upper and lower body together. Reverse crunches and leg or knee raises work this area.
  • Obliques are also crucial for core strength, because they stabilize your upper body and, when fully developed and defined–picture the piano key rows on Dexter Jackson’s sides–they grab attention. Side crunches and machine trunk twists work this area. Waist width is primarily the result of a broad hip/waist structure. Nevertheless, if you’re concerned about oblique overgrowth, do sets of 20-30 reps.
  • Your transverse abs aren’t visible, but they play a crucial role in your posture and keeping your belly in. You can work this area anytime and anywhere by pulling your bellybutton in toward your spine as far as possible and holding that position for a count of 10. Repeat for up to 10 times.

#5 Trying to train away fat

Many bodybuilders think enough crunching will bring their abs into sharp relief. Although recent research proves spot reduction is possible, your best strategy for shedding adipose tissue and excavating your abs is a combination of dieting and cardio.

Solutions

  • Alter your diet to lose fat. Eliminate trans fat and minimize saturated fat and simple carbs. Focus instead on lean protein, complex carbs and healthy fats.
  • Do 45-60 minutes of cardio postworkout or early in the morning.
  • Focus your ab workouts on growth, and the new muscle will become increasingly more visible as you shed unwanted weight.

Lessons Learned

  • Make time to train abs thoroughly twice per week.
  • Keep most reps in the 10-15 range and focus on increasing reps or resistance. Boost intensity via supersets or giant sets.
  • Train abs slowly, focusing on contractions.
  • Work all four areas: upper abs, lower abs, obliques and inner abs.
  • Diet and do cardio to lose fat; train abs to gain muscle.

Arnold Schwarzenegger – Total Ab Training

Arnold explains how to carve and polish the midsection.

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The majority of bodybuilders are obsessed with developing the showy muscles, such as the arms, pecs and shoulders. Almost certainly they spend most of their training time developing the major muscle groups: lats, pecs, quads, hamstrings, delts, traps, biceps, triceps and calves. The abdominals are usually done almost as an afterthought. A few sets of crunches, reverse crunches – or situps are performed at the end of a workout, but without much energy or enthusiasm. Rarely are the abs trained with the volume of the sets or intensity that other muscle groups receive. This is a common mistake and the reason most bodybuilders’ abs are not in great shape.
The truth is, if you want great abs you have to work hard to get them. Nothing comes easily in bodybuilding, but what satisfaction you feel when you finally see a great six-pack!
Whether you are a competitive bodybuilder or just someone who wants to look good, sharply defined fat-free abdominals are an absolute must for optimal appearance. The entire abdominal region, which includes the rectus abdominus, the intercostals and the obliques, should be exercised regularly. Nothing improves the shape of your body and the overall appearance faster than reducing the size of your waistline, flattening your stomach and developing your abdominals. Muscle mass is important, but without good shape and definition muscle mass means nothing. Who impresses people most at the beach, a big guy with 20-inch arms and a 55- inch chest but also a big pot belly and fat hips and glutes, or a smaller man with 17-inch arms, a 45-inch chest but a tiny wasp waist, rippling abs, and a super defined muscular body? As a big guy myself I’d like to able to say the big man, but that isn’t true. The guy with the good abs and the defined body is the one who gets all the attention.

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People associate a small, tight, flat stomach and hard abdominals with athleticism and physical well being. When someone asks you how big your muscles are, what do you do? You flex your biceps. But when someone asks you if you’re in shape, what do you do? If you truly are in shape you show your abs. If you are not in shape, and have a fat stomach, you mumble something about being late for an appointment and get away as fast as you can.
Unfortunately, the training methods and diet that best developed mass are often the complete opposite of what are needed for shape and definition, and vice versa.
A limited number of exercises per body part, heavy weights, low reps and long resting periods between sets are best for mass, while a greater variety of exercises per body part, more moderate weights, higher reps and shorter rest periods between sets – i.e. quality training -  are best for shape and definition. A diet high in protein, carbohydrates and fats, with lots of calories, will help you gain mass and bodyweight. A specialized diet high in protein, low in carbohydrates and moderately low in fats and calories will help you lose body fat and increase definition. So what’s a bodybuilder to do? What is the solution to this quandary? I recommend that you devote the fall, winter and early spring to mass training, and rest of the spring and the summer to definition training. That way every year you will be adding more and more muscle mass to your physique while improving shape and definition too.
Having a small, tight, muscular waist is the key to possessing a quality physique.
No other single muscle group makes your body look so impressive. A great set of abs changes your whole appearance. Suddenly your shoulders and lats look wider, your pecks and delts look bigger, and your V-taper improves. Your legs and upper body looks bigger and more impressive when you reduce the size of your waist and develop rock-hard abs. Well sculptured, highly defined, jewel-like abdominals not only give the entire physique a more polished and finished appearance but are essential if you hope to ever do well in a bodybuilding competition -  but they are also a barometer of your physical condition. They indicate how low or high your bodyfat levels are. They let you, and other people, know instantly if you are in shape. When your abs are well defined and fat free, the rest of your physique is in muscular condition too. If your abs are covered with a layer of fat, however, it is a sure bet that you are not in good condition and are smooth everywhere. You cannot have fantastic washboards abdominals if you are not in shape. arnold_schwarzenegger_trainingI believe in doing some abdominal exercises every training day – or at least 6 times a week. When I was really in a hurry to get my midsection in shape, I worked abs twice a day.
This double training blitzed away fat and produced razor sharp abdominals quickly.
Some people claim they don’t have time to train abs twice a day, but a few sets after you wake up in the morning and a few sets before bed should be possible for anyone. If you truly are strapped for time, try doing a couple of ab exercises at the beginning of your routine each day and then finish with a few sets at the end of a workout. My approach to ab training has always been to work them hard and fast. Most top bodybuilders rest only for a few seconds between sets, or take no rest at all, by doing their ab exercises in supersets, trisets or giant sets. This method causes an intense burn in the abs and helps to burn off fat while developing the abdominals and the intercostals at the same time. Nonstop workouts create an aerobic effect for overall bodyfat reduction too.

Favourite Ab Exercises

Roman Chair Situps

This exercise strongly works the upper abdominals. Over his career Zabo Koszewski must have done millions of them, and he probably won more Best Abs awards more than anybody. I often began my ab workouts with 10 minutes of nonstop Roman-chair situps. They not only worked my abs, but also served as a good warmup for my entire body. Don’t forget that your entire body is under tension when you do Roman chairs, so they almost work like iso-tension posing. To do Roman-chair situps, sit on the Roman-chair bench and hook your feet under the supports. Cross your arms over your chest and fold them in front of you. Keeping your stomach sucked in, lower yourself to approximately a 70-degree angle. Do not lower until your torso is parallel to the floor because you’ll take the stress off the abs and put it on the hip flexors and lower back. You want to maintain an arch in the lower back, and not let it round. The 70 degree position lets you maintain constant tension on the abs.
Inhale as you lower your body back and exhale as you come up to the finish position.
Pause at the top to tense and squeeze your abs, then lower under muscular tension to begin another rep. Concentrate deeply on crunching your abs to increase contraction. To make the exercise more intense, try placing the block under the front of the bench to create more of an incline. Although I listed my sets and reps as 4 X 25 to 50, in truth I normally did Roman chairs for time. I’d go nonstop for ten minutes and do as many as I could. Once I had completed the Roman chairs, I would do sets and reps of many other exercises. To put more tension on the intercostals and the sides of the waist, you can do what I called three-way Roman-chair situps. Do three minutes of regular reps, moving the body straight up and down. Then do three minutes of reps in which you twist your torso to work one side of the waist, followed by three minutes of twisting to the other side. Finish with a couple more minutes of regular reps. By the time you complete this exercises, your entire waistline and intercostals should be burning.

DSC040591Hanging Knee Raises

These work the lower abs strongly if they are done correctly. Hang from the chinning bar, bend your knees and raise them as high as possible. Tense your abs hard and pause for a count of two. Lower your legs slowly to take advantage of negative resistance, and repeat. Exhale when raising your legs and inhale when lowering them. If you find your grip slipping, use straps.

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These are good for lower abs. Keeping a little bend in the knees at all times will reduce strain on your lower back. You can do these raises on a flat bench, on a decline ab board (definitely the most intense version), or on the floor. When doing them on the floor, never let your feet touch down, as this momentary relaxation prevents continuous tension on the abs. Do the middle three-fifths of the exercise, not quite reaching a 90-degree perpendicular-to-the-floor position at the top, but not allowing your feet to touch at the bottom. Remember to keep your stomach sucked in as you do the exercise, and concentrate on keeping constant tension on the abs. A good variation of these exercises is lying reverse crunches, or lying knee-ins. As you lie on the bench, you bend your knees and bring them up to your chest. Tense your abs hard to contract the muscles and then lower slowly back to the starting position. Do not take tension off the abs by either straightening your legs or touching the ground.

jorge_broomstick_twistBroomstick Twists

Side to side twists may been done either seated or standing. They work the intercostals and help to trim the obliques. Hold a broomstick on the back of your shoulders. Inhale as much as possible to suck in your abs. Twist rapidly from side to side. Do not let your head twist back and forth as you turn your torso. Keep it steady. Look straight ahead. Also keep your hips and pelvis steady. Try to turn only your midsection. A good mental image to help you do this exercise properly is to imagine your lower body encased in concrete and your head locked in a vise. Now the only part that can move is the midsection.
A word of warning about twists:
Avoid this exercise with heavy barbell, for you risk developing the obliques, thus thickening your waist and reducing your V-taper. You could also injure your lower back if you twist with a heavy weight because of the torque involved. You want to twist with light weight. Do it rapidly and for high reps to bring a burn in the targeted muscles.

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Great for developing spinal erectors, hyperextensions will also strengthen your lower back. Position your body face down on the hyperextension bench. Lower your upper body all the way down and then come up to just a little above horizontal. Pause to tense and squeeze the lower back muscles and then lower again. If you rise too high, you risk overextending your lower back and causing injury to the discs that make up the spinal column.
Some of you might be thinking, ‘Hey, hyperextensions are not abdominal exercises – they’re for the lower back. What are they doing in an ab routine?’
Well what do you think the back of your waist is? It’s your lower back! You need lower – back exercises to help remove fat from that area as much as you need situps, crunches or leg raises to help burn fat from the front of the body. Hyperextensions strengthen the lower back and create synergistic balance between the two muscle groups. You do not want to ignore the lower back and have it become your weak link.

More Tips

Never train your abs with heavy weights, because you’ll get a thick, chunky midsection that distracts from your V-taper and ruins symmetry. Do high reps with no weight at all, or very light weights at most. Exercises for the lower abdominals can sometimes be done with extra weight, as you are unlikely to get ab thickness in this area. Ectomorphs are the only bodybuilders who might occasionally benefit from some ab thickness, but even they shouldn’t overdo it. Endomorphs should never train their waists with weights – they are already thick enough in the waist and hips. Mesomorphs should decide whether the extra thickness in the abs that comes from using weights is a positive or negative factor for their physique.

Abs And Your Diet

You can’t get fantastic abs through training alone. A good high- protein low-carbohydrate diet is a necessity if you hope to develop fat free abs. Reduce your intake of sweets, starches and fatty junk foods. Keep your protein levels high. Eat 30 to 50 grams of lean protein every three hours. If you reduce your caloric intake by 500-calories a day below maintenance level (the number of calories necessary to maintain your current bodyweight) and physically burning another 500 calories a day at the gym, you can lose upto two pounds of body fat a week.

Faster Results?

If you really want to speed up fat loss to the max, follow a high protein and very low-carb diet. When you’re losing fat, a high-protein diet helps you to maintain as much muscle size as possible, and assist in the fat burning process too. Do not eliminate all fat from your diet. A small amount of natural fat (from egg yolks, red meat and vegetable oils) helps the body to burn more fat. You need fat to burn bodyfat.To lose all stored bodyfat, you must eliminate almost all carbohydrates and starches from your diet. When striving for maximum definition, restrict carbs to one salad a day. If you eat lot of carbs, your body will use them for energy instead of stored bodyfat, so results will come more slowly than you expect.

What About Cardio?

Aerobics are a great benefit for fat burning. Running, jogging and swimming are fantastic. Stair climbers, rowing machines, stationary bikes and treadmills also provide effective aerobic exercise. Your choice of aerobic activity is not as important as the fact that you just do it. Daily sessions of 20-30 minutes will speed up your metabolism, and make your abs show much sooner than just doing ab exercises and dieting. Running and swimming also make you more athletic and prevent your body from becoming stiff and prone to injury.
I have personally found running to be a very valuable training asset.
I highly recommend it for faster progress in training down to a hard, muscular body condition. The health benefits of doing aerobic exercises are a good enough reason to do it. Your heart, lungs and immune system benefit, and your energy level, endurance and stamina markedly improve. You can train with less fatigue and faster pace because you recuperate more quickly.

Conclusion

When your abs are in the great-to-fantastic category, all eyes will be on you whether you are onstage, at a contest, at the beach in a swimsuit, or in the gym wearing a cutoff T-shirt or tank top. Moreover, you will have the satisfaction of knowing the rest of your body is in fantastic condition too. What a great feeling knowing you are in peak condition! It makes all the pain and hard work worthwhile.