坏人- 妈妈的那一份爱 & my muscle journey! :)

小的时候当我们都还天真 我们的视线和细想 对于人 就只有 如果那个人对你好 就是好人 对你坏 就是坏人. 慢慢地长大 发现 原来 有些人 对你好 是因为 要得到某一些利益 而我们也明白这些人再怎么对你好 都不是好人. 而坏人 也一直保持不变 坏的 就是坏人.

但我成熟了 是个真正的男子了 才被我一直以为的坏人 -"妈妈" 才是真正的对我"好"的人 就因 从小她就对我很严格 考试不好 就打 不听话打 顶嘴打 犯错打 所以我一直都认为 妈妈是个坏人 我错了.

还记得有一次的偶然 妈妈告诉我 其实你刚出世的时候 很多人来看你 说的就是我爸爸 那一边的 亲戚, 当我在抱你的时候 你的 阿妈就说 哇 这个baby 这么难看的 你是不是抱错人啊.. 这么难看的 长大一定没人要啦. 当时我爸爸没有为我说道半句好话 但我了解 毕竟她是你的母亲, 而我妈妈 没这么觉得, 反而她呢觉得我 是这个世界上最棒的小孩 也就因为如此 他对我特别的严格. 

当我在中学时 我的舅舅 曾经嘲笑的对我妈妈说 哇老 你的儿子这么难看 还敢带他出街哦? 如果我是你 我就叫他在家算了. 当时我 领悟到 其实我给母亲的 并不多 多的就只是 人家鄙视的眼神. 就在那一刻我下定决心 自我改变..

当时的我还不知道我刚出世的情景, 这件事是在我 毕业后.. 妈妈觉得我成熟了 是时候吧 事实告诉我了 当时的我很感动 也因为这份感动 让我对人生 别其他人还要坚持 只要是我 决定要做的 我一定要有所成绩 我绝对不会让人家看扁我.. 就在我慢慢的长大 妈妈也同时的慢慢地变老 我想在还有机会的时候 让她 感到骄傲 光荣 有我这么一个孩子!  我渐渐地发现 原来我妈妈才是世界上最美的女人 所以 我都对我朋友说 你不要和我说 那个女子很美 什么的 因为 没有人能超越我 妈咪的 美! 我爱你 妈眯 "近年来我也时常和我妈妈说了, 她都有点不好意思, 哈哈 但 我真的很爱很爱你啊 妈咪"!

 once upon a time

standard 6/age around 12 with 60kg+ weight.

should be around form 3 (haven't start training.)

9 dec 2010 (skinny shit)

 8 feb 2011 (still skinny)

doesn't looks good with shirt too huh? hahah!

 9 april 2011 (thanks to my brother for helping me taking this pic)

26 june 2011 (has been told to go for cutting because i was buff like fuck!)

 26 june 2011 (the great thing about buff. you looks GREAT when wearing cloth)

 15 dec 2011 (didn't take much pic when i go for cutting)

3 march 2012 (currently! going to buff up again but not eating junk anymore, is all about clean food.)

the right way!

how did Charles made the inclines so hard (and freakin’ effective)? By doing it SUPER slow like, 4 seconds up and 4 seconds down. Oh, and stop COMPLETELY at the bottom so that there’s no bounce stealing the work from your pectorals. This super strict movement ensures that all muscle fibres of the chest are stimulated and not just the fast-twitch fibres.


Second exercise of the day is incline dumbbell flyes. Simple? Think again. Charles made it more effective by instead of letting my butt sit on the bench, I have to push my body up the bench with my feet on the ground while having my upper back and butt lean on the incline. Why so? Because without the seat, the body won’t just rest on the butt. Instead, I have to arch back and expand my chest to maintain my position, therefore, giving a better stretch in the pectorals. Pretty neat trick, huh?


Next we move on to Smith machine bench press. This time, the positive (contraction) portion of the movement is done explosively. As for the negative portion, Charles instructed me to lower the weight slowly. And at the bottom, Charles placed the safety bars so that the barbell stops two inches above my chest. After a slight pause at the bottom, BOOM, the weight goes up full speed. Because this is a power movement, 


After than, Charles put me through parallel dips again, with a variation. To maximize pectoral recruitment and reduce involvement of the triceps, Charles instructed me to bend over and lift my butt up so that my upper body is almost parallel to the ground.


Last exercise for chest before we move on to abs – push ups. But instead of the normal push ups, Charles placed my arms nearer to my feet so that my butt is lifted up and there’s a bend in my hips instead of just being straight.


for abs is seated leg tucks. Tip for the tucks – don’t let your leg go low and limit the range of motion to the top half only. This way, your abs do all the work and not your hip flexors.


copy and paste the resource is from http://fabodylous.com/2011/04/training-with-charles-glass.html

Angela Aki "letter"

Dear you,
Who's reading this letter
Where are you and what are you doing now?

For me who's 15 years old
There are seeds of worries I can't tell anyone

If it's a letter addressed to my future self,
Surely I can confide truly to myself

Now, it seems that I'm about to be defeated and cry
For someone who's seemingly about to disappear
Whose words should I believe in?
This one-and-only heart has been broken so many times
In the midst of this pain, I live the present

Dear you,
Thank you
I have something to tell the 15-year-old you

If you continue asking what and where you should be going
You'll be able to see the answer

The rough seas of youth may be tough
But row your boat of dreams on
Towards the shores of tomorrow

Now, please don't be defeated and please don't shed a tear
During these times when you're seemingly about to disappear
Just believe in your own voice
For me as an adult, there are sleepless nights when I'm hurt
But I'm living the bittersweet present

There's meaning to everything in life
So build your dreams without fear
Keep on believing

Seems like I'm about to be defeated and cry
For someone who's seemingly about to disappear
Whose words should I believe in?

Please don't be defeated and please don't shed a tear
During these times when you're seemingly about to disappear
Just believe in your own voice

No matter era we're in
There's no running away from sorrow
So show your smile, and go on living the present
Go on living the present

Dear you,
Who's reading this letter
I wish you happiness

李嘉诚演讲：打工是最愚蠢的投资

李嘉诚演讲：打工是最愚蠢的投资

很多人会认为打工并不是投资，强烈反对这种观念。其实打工才是最大最愚蠢的投资。 人生最宝贵的是什么？除了我们的青春还有什么更宝贵？很多人都抱怨我穷，我没钱想做生意又找不到资金。多么的可笑！其实在你身上就有着一座金山(无形资产)，只是你不敢承认。宁可埋没也不敢利用。宁可委委屈屈地帮人打工，把你的资产双手拱让给了你的老板。我们试想一下，有谁生下来上天就会送给他一大堆金钱的？问问李嘉诚吧。 我曾经问过我的一个朋友为什么不去打工？他的回答很惊人：“说句得罪点，出去打工简直就是愚蠢浪费青春！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你安于现状！因为你没有勇气，你天生胆小怕事不敢另择它路！所以你是打工仔！因为你没有勇往直前，没有超越自我的精神！所以，你还是一个打工仔！你想过了改变你的生活，改变你穷困的命运，但是你没有做！因为你不敢做！你害怕输，你害怕输的一穷再穷！你最后不敢想，还是在打工，所以你还是打工仔！！！你努力了，你拼搏了，你抱着雄心大志。结果你没看到预想的成就！你放弃了！你只还是一个打工仔！！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你随波逐流！近墨者黑，不思上进，分钱没得，死爱闹热，所以你一直是打工仔！因为你畏惧你父母，你听信你亲戚，你没有主张，你不敢一个人做决定。所以，你只不过还是一直是一个打工仔！你观念传统，只想打工赚点钱结婚生子，然后生病老死，走你父母一模一样的路，所以你一直是打工仔！你天生脆弱、脑筋迟钝只想做按班就部的工作，你想做无本的生意，你想坐在家里等天上掉陷饼，所以你一直是一个打工仔！你抱怨没有机遇，机遇来到你身边的时候你又抓不住！因为你不会抓！所以你还是一直是打工仔！因为你的贫穷，所以你自卑！你退缩了！你什么都不敢做！你只会给别人打工！所以你一直是打工仔！你没有特别技能，你只有使蛮力！你和你父母一样，恶性循环，所以，你一直永远的一个一直在打工的打工仔！
很多人想把握机会，要做一件事情时，但往往给自己找了很多理由让自己一直处于矛盾之中，不断浪费时间，虚度时光!
1，我没口才。错！有没有人天生就会说话，台上的演讲大师也不是一下子就能出口成章，骂人的时候很擅长，抱怨的时候也很擅长，这也是口才，只是没有任何营养罢了，那是没有价值的口才；看别人争论的时候，自己满嘴评头论足，却不反省自己，倘若你做得好，你今天是否还说自己没口才[/U]

2，我没钱。错！不是没有钱，而是没有赚钱的脑袋，工作几年了没有钱么，有了，但是花掉了，花在没有回报的事情上面，吃喝玩乐，或存放贬值了，没有实现最大化，所以钱就这样入不敷出，这样月光光 这样被生活所需全部一一使用，这样周而复始，每月做个月光族，没有远虑，当一天和尚敲一天钟，得过且过。[/U]

3，我没能力。错！不给自己机会去锻炼，又有谁一出生就有跑的能力?跳的能力？一毕业就是社会精英?一创业就马上成功?当别人很努力的学习，很努力的积累，努力的找方法，而他每天就做了很少一点就觉得乏味，学了一些就觉得没意思，看了一些就不想看，跟自己跟别人说没兴趣学，然后半辈子过去，一事无成，然后牢骚上天不给机会。能力是努力修来的，不努力想有能力，天才都会成蠢材，但努力，再笨的人也能成精英。[/U]

4，我没时间。错！时间很多，但浪费的也很多，别人很充实，他在看电视，别人在努力学习时，他在游戏消遣虚度，总之时间就是觉得很多余，他过得越来越无聊，别人赚钱了羡慕别人，但不去学别人好好把握时间创造价值，整天不学无术。[/U]

5，我没心情。错！心情好的时候去游玩；心情不好的时候在家喝闷酒，心情好的时候去逛街，心情不好的时候玩游戏，心情好的时候去享受，心情不好的时候就睡大觉，好坏心情都一样，反正就是不做正事。[/U]

6， 我没兴趣。错！兴趣是什么，吃喝玩乐谁都有，没有成就哪里来的尽兴，出去旅游回来月光族，出去K歌 回头钱包空空，出去大量购物回来惨兮兮。打工有没有兴趣，挤公车有没有兴趣？上班签到下班打卡有没有兴趣？家里急需要一大笔钱的时候借钱有没有兴趣？要还钱没钱还有没有兴趣？卖老鼠药的人对老鼠药有没有兴趣……？[/U]

7，我考虑考虑。错！考虑做吧，有可能就成了！不做吧，好不甘心，整天上班也没有个头，还是做吧，明天开始，不过还是算了，再想想，这钱挣的也不容易，不不，就是打工挣钱也不容易，所以不能放弃机会，决定了，把握机会。 哎呀！天都黑了，明天再说吧！然后第二天又因为以上123456点，因为左思右想，继续循环，最终不能决定，犹犹豫豫，还是一无所获。[/U]

有句话是，可怜之人必有可恨之处！这一生中不是没有机遇，而是没有争取与把握，借口太多，理由太多......!争取之人必竭力争取，一分钱都没有也千方百计想办法，不争取之人给一百万也动不起来，发财不了，还有可能一败涂地，这就是行动上的欠缺，喜欢犹豫不决，喜欢拖延，喜欢半途而废，最后一辈子平庸，碌碌无为！还有的人，做事三分钟热度，一开始热情高涨，等会就继续懒散，这种人成功的帽子也不会在你的头上。看看为什么别人身价几个亿，你自己还在为钱奔波，不要羡慕别人命好，别人很困难的时候是怎么坚挺过来的，怎么克服困难，突破自己，改变命运的，你没看到罢了，活着就是要一身价值。
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李嘉诚演讲：打工是最愚蠢的投资 　　很多人会认为打工并不是投资，强烈反对这种观念。其实打工才是最大最愚蠢的投资。 人生最宝贵的是什么？除了我们的青春还有什么更宝贵？很多人都抱怨我穷，我没钱想做生意又找不到资金。多么的可笑！其实在你身上就有着一座金山(无形资产)，只是你不敢承认。宁可埋没也不敢利用。宁可委委屈屈地帮人打工，把你的资产双手拱让给了你的老板。我们试想一下，有谁生下来上天就会送给他一大堆金钱的？问问李嘉诚吧。 我曾经问过我的一个朋友为什么不去打工？他的回答很惊人：“说句得罪点，出去打工简直就是愚蠢浪费青春！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你安于现状！因为你没有勇气，你天生胆小怕事不敢另择它路！所以你是打工仔！因为你没有勇往直前，没有超越自我的精神！所以，你还是一个打工仔！你想过了改变你的生活，改变你穷困的命运，但是你没有做！因为你不敢做！你害怕输，你害怕输的一穷再穷！你最后不敢想，还是在打工，所以你还是打工仔！！！你努力了，你拼搏了，你抱着雄心大志。结果你没看到预想的成就！你放弃了！你只还是一个打工仔！！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你随波逐流！近墨者黑，不思上进，分钱没得，死爱闹热，所以你一直是打工仔！因为你畏惧你父母，你听信你亲戚，你没有主张，你不敢一个人做决定。所以，你只不过还是一直是一个打工仔！你观念传统，只想打工赚点钱结婚生子，然后生病老死，走你父母一模一样的路，所以你一直是打工仔！你天生脆弱、脑筋迟钝只想做按班就部的工作，你想做无本的生意，你想坐在家里等天上掉陷饼，所以你一直是一个打工仔！你抱怨没有机遇，机遇来到你身边的时候你又抓不住！因为你不会抓！所以你还是一直是打工仔！因为你的贫穷，所以你自卑！你退缩了！你什么都不敢做！你只会给别人打工！所以你一直是打工仔！你没有特别技能，你只有使蛮力！你和你父母一样，恶性循环，所以，你一直永远的一个一直在打工的打工仔！ 　　很多人想把握机会，要做一件事情时，但往往给自己找了很多理由让自己一直处于矛盾之中，不断浪费时间，虚度时光! 1，我没口才。错！有没有人天生就会说话，台上的演讲大师也不是一下子就能出口成章，骂人的时候很擅长，抱怨的时候也很擅长，这也是口才，只是没有任何营养罢了，那是没有价值的口才；看别人争论的时候，自己满嘴评头论足，却不反省自己，倘若你做得好，你今天是否还说自己没口才[/U] 2，我没钱。错！不是没有钱，而是没有赚钱的脑袋，工作几年了没有钱么，有了，但是花掉了，花在没有回报的事情上面，吃喝玩乐，或存放贬值了，没有实现最大化，所以钱就这样入不敷出，这样月光光 这样被生活所需全部一一使用，这样周而复始，每月做个月光族，没有远虑，当一天和尚敲一天钟，得过且过。[/U] 3，我没能力。错！不给自己机会去锻炼，又有谁一出生就有跑的能力?跳的能力？一毕业就是社会精英?一创业就马上成功?当别人很努力的学习，很努力的积累，努力的找方法，而他每天就做了很少一点就觉得乏味，学了一些就觉得没意思，看了一些就不想看，跟自己跟别人说没兴趣学，然后半辈子过去，一事无成，然后牢骚上天不给机会。能力是努力修来的，不努力想有能力，天才都会成蠢材，但努力，再笨的人也能成精英。[/U] 4，我没时间。错！时间很多，但浪费的也很多，别人很充实，他在看电视，别人在努力学习时，他在游戏消遣虚度，总之时间就是觉得很多余，他过得越来越无聊，别人赚钱了羡慕别人，但不去学别人好好把握时间创造价值，整天不学无术。[/U] 5，我没心情。错！心情好的时候去游玩；心情不好的时候在家喝闷酒，心情好的时候去逛街，心情不好的时候玩游戏，心情好的时候去享受，心情不好的时候就睡大觉，好坏心情都一样，反正就是不做正事。[/U] 6， 我没兴趣。错！兴趣是什么，吃喝玩乐谁都有，没有成就哪里来的尽兴，出去旅游回来月光族，出去K歌 回头钱包空空，出去大量购物回来惨兮兮。打工有没有兴趣，挤公车有没有兴趣？上班签到下班打卡有没有兴趣？家里急需要一大笔钱的时候借钱有没有兴趣？要还钱没钱还有没有兴趣？卖老鼠药的人对老鼠药有没有兴趣……？[/U] 7，我考虑考虑。错！考虑做吧，有可能就成了！不做吧，好不甘心，整天上班也没有个头，还是做吧，明天开始，不过还是算了，再想想，这钱挣的也不容易，不不，就是打工挣钱也不容易，所以不能放弃机会，决定了，把握机会。 哎呀！天都黑了，明天再说吧！然后第二天又因为以上123456点，因为左思右想，继续循环，最终不能决定，犹犹豫豫，还是一无所获。[/U] 有句话是，可怜之人必有可恨之处！这一生中不是没有机遇，而是没有争取与把握，借口太多，理由太多......!争取之人必竭力争取，一分钱都没有也千方百计想办法，不争取之人给一百万也动不起来，发财不了，还有可能一败涂地，这就是行动上的欠缺，喜欢犹豫不决，喜欢拖延，喜欢半途而废，最后一辈子平庸，碌碌无为！还有的人，做事三分钟热度，一开始热情高涨，等会就继续懒散，这种人成功的帽子也不会在你的头上。看看为什么别人身价几个亿，你自己还在为钱奔波，不要羡慕别人命好，别人很困难的时候是怎么坚挺过来的，怎么克服困难，突破自己，改变命运的，你没看到罢了，活着就是要一身价值。

Mass building Biceps workout.!

On top is different biceps workout table.

Mass building Biceps workout.!    Workout #1

Barbell Curls 3x8-12

Incline Dumbbell Curls 3x8-12

Preacher Curls 3x8-12

Workout #2
Dumbbell Curls 3x8-12
Reverse Barbell Curls 3x8-12
Barbell 21’s 3x8-12

Workout #3
EZ Bar Close Grip Curls 3x8-12
EZ Bar Wide Grip Curls 3x8-12
Cable Rope Hammer Curls 3x8-12

Workout #4
Straight Bar Cable Machine Bicep Curls 3x8-12
Incline Dumbbell Curls 3x8-12
Dumbbell Hammer Curls 3x8-12

Workout #5
Dumbbell Bicep Curl 3x8-12
Straight Bar Cable Machine Bicep Curl 3x8-12
Barbell 21’s 3x8-12

Workout #6
EZ Bar Cable Machine Close Grip Bicep Curls 3x8-12
EZ Bar Cable Machine Wide Grip Bicep Curls 3x8-12
Dumbbell Preacher Curls 3x8-12

Workout #7
Barbell Curls 3x8-12
Seated Dumbbell Curls 3x8-12
Dumbbell Hammer Curls 3x8-12

Workout #8
Barbell Curls 3x8-12
Barbell Reverse Curls 3x8-12
Barbell Preacher Curls 3x8-12




Biceps Brachii:

The biceps brachii is given the name biceps because it has two heads, and brachii comes from the Latin word for arm.
The short head of the biceps attaches to the coracoid process of the scapula. The tendon of the long head passes into the joint capsule at the head of the humerus, and attaches on the scapula at the supraglenoid tubercle.
Distally, biceps attaches to the radial tuberosity. The biceps also connects with the fascia of the medial side of the arm, at the bicipital aponeurosis.

Brachialis:
It arises from the distal, anterior half of the humerus and the intermuscular septa. It inserts into the coronoid process and tuberosity of the ulna over the elbow joint.

Pronator Teres:
It arises from the distal end of the medial humerous and the medial part of the ulna. From there is inserts into the lateral side of the radius.

Sorry god i disappointed you.

I guess all my blogger followers is gone huh, since i didn't really update much about myself. but today i am back to blogger because i feel sinful and shame for losing my faith in god.


When this semester i were hoping and planning for all the best thing that could be happen in my live - taking diploma in mass communication (1year) but Inti college lie to me that if i finish my cert in business i can take a 6month shortcut to mass communication course but when i finish my cert and i plan to change they didn't do as they promise to eliminate 6month of the course but they want me to study all over again including moral, history and bunch of crap. so the only way for me not to wasting my time is continue diploma in business for that i got no choice but taking the business course again. (i like business but the main reason that i don't want to take it is because of MATH and ACCOUNT. i am sucks in calculation, i try to learn but it is all going too fast in short sem) *i have been thinking is god planning this road for me?! or it is just the luck is not coming to me*


Most of my friend is good in counting so i could count on them when it come to test and assign but this sem they fail to deliver their promise to me that they will give the answer to me in the exam. they has been taking cert with me pass years and i always be the one who gave them the answer in exam hall since is more on management subject and theory. i admit that i quite fed up at first but then i realize i was putting too much hope on them until i didn't really focus on the counting subject aka math, accounting. *at this point i judge god for not helping me to get the answer for not giving me the intelligent to solve the question*


Everyone have their own fun time hanging out, playing online games, pub, clubbing or some cyber cafe and for me is training in the gym - BodyBuilding. i am very serious about my training and my food intake for i believe my hard work will all be worth at the end of the day #GettingMyDreamBody. This is one of my way of releasing the stress because i could put my anger on the bar.! this is what happen today, i was walking to gym as usual and after my training when i was walking back home the rain started to fall the day before i has just been through my math test paper 2 and i don't have enough time to finish the paper due to late entering the class cause by heaving rain and big storm and wind as well. i lose my faith in god that time because this is the only chance for me not to failing the paper. after my test paper my mood is is extremely low and i plan to have a running session and the rain start to fall again. i always believe that when a person been through a real bad time/luck and all of a sudden the good luck will come back to you but not this time. after the rain stop i ran about 10 round down my apartment just to release my anger and asking god why me.?!!!!! why all this shits happen to me?!!!! -i judge god once again. back to the part for today morning when i walk back home the rain start to fall, in the same time my friend was calling me for a hang out, they already reach the place and want me to come right now. WET is the only word i could describe myself at that point of time, so i change my cloth and rush to met my friend. we been hang out like 1 hours plus and i learn some accounting method from my friend (have to study it no matter how much i hate it because my test paper result is so bad.)


5pm - church. my friend come to fetch me and i was going to church with all the question on my mind  and i doubt god for not loving me like he did old time. and the incredible things happen next.. is when a girl walk on the stage and share is testimonial .. she has a kind of sick that will cause her to dead if she didn't go to surgery, she been through a surgery before at her age 13 but at that time the cold blood in her brain is not as danger as this time. and she was staying at foreign country that time, she plan to fly back to malaysia since she know that she have to come back to have the surgery but doctor didn't approve it because it will be very danger her (air pressure of the flight.) but praise lord she fly back to malaysia safety. and her parents was praying to god and have so much faith in god that her daughter will be safe, the surgery got it own risk it might cause her blind, coma, lost memory, lost his ability to move. when she step into the surgery room she said : i am not going to lie, i really do feel scare but i believe in god. her surgery is end earlier than the predicted time and her family members is around her and she could recognize all of them that means miracle is happening to her. before she end his testimonial she said this "When god throw a problem to you, he knew you could overcome it, this is why he pick you. Do not question god, why me instead be bless because god know you can do it and make you be the chosen one"


In that moment i realize i was such a fool for judging god and losing faith in him is for he is the one who sacrifice himself on the cross to wash away my sins and shame. My tears start to drop and i feel so sorry for betraying god i shouldn't doubt him at the first. i pray so hard for god forgiveness and i sing with my soul for i believe he will still loving me no matter what i did. 

 God i feel truly sorry for what i done, what i did. i will return to you. lead me, encourage me and make me stronger in you i believe nothing is impossible! thanks god, i love you my god, my lord.!

is a copy from others, but this is very interesting so i share it. :)

1. Guys hate sluts.

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on thephone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-
how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.